“So you’re trans?” Fitch scratched his jaw before popping another onion ring in his mouth. “It depends on what you mean by trans. Transgender, I am not. I don’t identify as female. I enjoy everything male about myself. But technically I guess you could call me a transvestite. We prefer androgynous more than anything, a little bit of both and neither at the same time. Completely ambiguous. But personally I don’t like labels."
I like this explanation a lot!